Do you wonder why some ladies are so put together all the time? In this article, I’ll tell you some of the factors that make these ladies distinguished from regular women.

She knows that…

1. She doesn’t need permission. 

She knows that life is what you make it and she wants to design her life to a life she loves. It’s her life after all!

2. She doesn’t need validation. 

She has her own thoughts and ideas. She’s self-assured. She knows who she is, what she’s doing and why she’s doing it. She also knows who’s opinion really matters to her the most. 

3. She’s her only competition. 

Females love to compete with each, sometimes, even without the other party knowing it. She knows that competitions are a waste of time because it invites negative energies such as insecurity and jealousy. She also knows that everyone in life is on a different journey.

4. She waits for no one. 

She knows that if she really wants something, she needs to get it herself and not wait for anyone to hand it to her. She has a sense of independence. Wonder why? Because what if nobody hands her her dream life?

5. She’s responsible for herself. 

She’s an adult and she knows that she’s responsible for herself. She’s not playing the blame game. She’s not a crybaby either. She’s matured.

6. She doesn’t dwell on the past. 

She knows that life has to move on regardless. She just has to be a big girl and move forward.

7. She knows & accepts who she is. 

She knows that knowing who she is is crucial for her self-confidence. She navigates through life developing her sense of self-awareness.

8. She loves who she is. 

She knows that she might not be perfect but she was uniquely and specially made. She makes the most of who she is.

9. She respects herself. 

Every sophisticated lady has a sense of self-respect because you cannot be sophisticated without it.

10. She’s a lifelong learner. 

She knows that education doesn’t begin or end in the classroom. Education is everywhere and lifelong. As a sophisticated lady, she knows that personal development is important.

11. Saying “no” is necessary. 

She has boundaries. She knows that a lady needs to have boundaries and not allow anything and everything.

12. Looks aren’t everything but they can take you a long way. 

She knows that first impressions always matter. People will not treat a poorly dressed person as well as they will treat a well-dressed person.

13. She’s not perfect. 

She knows that nobody is 100% perfect. She’s just putting her best foot forward and hoping for the best.

14. Simplicity is her best friend. 

She knows that keeping things simple will always be acceptable and classy. 

15. She indulges in conversations not gossip. 

Do you know why? Because gossip makes people bitter and miserable. The sophisticated lady knows better.

16. She doesn’t flaunt. 

She knows that anybody that really has it doesn’t need to flaunt. It just shows on its own when she’s living her life.